Leighbugs wrote: ↑Sun Aug 20, 2023 5:02 am
And finally...ome more thing because I want to clarify the numerous things that keep coming up. As for other members and why they got away with (fill in the blank.) I can just say, I don't know. Because it's true, I haven't been here much lately due to, well...life. I hope to change that. All I know is I logged in today and it was turning into a war here and since I didn't see any other mods here at the time, I figured I would try and deal with it. I am pretty open-minded and pretty fair, I think. My main belief is that everyone deserves respect, even if we disagree. Once respect goes out the window, it's time to step in.
That being said, I suppose I could have just not taken any action at all. Perhaps I am wrong in doing so. If I am, I apologize. But I was torn when I came on here and saw things going quickly downhill, so I intervened. If I should have left it for a different mod, I do apologize. I really was trying to be helpful and keep this place peaceful but unfortunately, I was met with endless resistance. I am willing to listen if people don't agree with me though and I am not above constructive criticism when it's given respectfully.
My main issue ( and this will be the last time I speak on this topic)
Is that 7 years ago when Hawk messaged me asking for my address so we could fight, Nothing was done. I even provided screenshots because he denied it on the forum and he still called me a B*tch and a snitch. He's done this 3 separate times to me and nobody once even thought about banning him.
Eventually when you allow someone to constantly attack someone then things will escalate like they did on the weekend. Should I have said nothing? Yes, I should have said nothing, but I'm annoyed and pissed that 3 members get away with this stuff, yet I'm the one that's made an example..
I don't hate anyone on here, but things are constantly said and said in a way that they can say, " I never said that," but you can see through the B.S
I'm usually always on topic, and only recently, I've joined the climate discussion cause it should be talked about.
At the end of the day, I'll avoid posts that I don't like. But I promise you that by winter, things will escalate if things are allowed to be said.